Tuesday, April 22, 2008

what makes a worthy wife

Today, this granddaughter and I had a breakfast date at Wild Flower.

She's the most fun 6 3/4 year old girl to talk to.

She's a good thinker, works on caring for others and is an amazing helper and organizer. She's also the best big sister and older cousin any little girl could have.


Right now, she's is so moldable. I love it, and being a disciplemaker and bridge builder, I'm taking advantage of the time I have with her.

Lately, we've been having conversation about "being a worthy wife" and so today, at breakfast that was what most of our convo was about.

I asked her what she thought were some of the "skills" of a worthy wife. Her list includes: cooks in the kitchen, clean up after herself, always carries a hanky, takes care of her family, is gentle, doesn't yell and is kind.

She also said that a worthy wife always looks pretty (hmmm), has her hair combed nice, wears earrings, puts make up on (oh dear - we're being incriminated here) and then looking at my arm she says, "And she wears bracelets." Awe - so sweet.

The conversation continued as I explained how God talks about the worthy wife thing in the very beginning, in the middle and in the back section of The Book. I pointed to Genesis 3, Proverbs and Ephesians. Then I told her that right here (pointing to Titus 2), God tells me that I'm supposed to tell my daughters and my granddaughters what it means to be a worthy wife and that is the reason I'm telling her.

It was fun hearing her thoughts about how a worthy wife is supposed to be with her husband. She said that she is supposed to "take care of him when he's not feeling well and be kind." She added that with children your supposed to help them learn the right way to do things.

Because worthy wives must understand what respect is all about, we chatted about that too. I gave her a couple of examples of a wife saying the same thing in two different ways. I wanted her to understand that a woman's tone - via her heart attitude - would be one of the ways that would show respect or disrespect. She got it. And so do I.

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cute shoes for my granddaughters. . . ya think?

I think I'd have to get both three year old granddaughters these shoes. Gosh are they cute! Stride Rite Girls: BG25137 Caden Mary Jane Stage 3 Azalea
I showed this cutie from the Faro selection to Miriam and she immediately said, "Nana, I like toes ones." Faro shoes are handcrafted in small, family run factories in Spain, in the best traditions of European shoe-making.

Jillian HEARTS these.
They're Keds TF24264 Knack Belt Beach Balls Sneakers. I HEART them too!

I think I'd like these for Miriam. . . .
These are Bare Feet, cause they're shaped like bare feet.
Bear Feet Girls: SFP Kiwi SandalsStyle 2041


. . . and, oh yes! These for Ivana . . .
Primigi Girls: 6944177 Phoebe Rosa/Pistacchio Mary JanesStyle 1983


. . . of course, these would be for Jillian - she's 6, but thinks she's 16. . . these are super cool - 'Chic Out' Flat Grosgrain bow tops an open-toe skimmer with allover dots. Kenneth Cole Girls: CR00230GG Chic Out GG


. . . but then again, I think Candace might like these for Ivana. What do ya think?
Primigi Girls: Blossom Rosa Mary Jane Style 2048

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yum cupcakes for mom

A hot pink boybeater ribbed tank has a big chocolate cupcake. Heaping with frosting and a cherry on top. Who doesn't crave a compact, delicious confection?

Yum! As if you aren't sweet enough already, this giant cupcake pajama top from And Cake is pure sugar.

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the perfect gift for mom

Eat. Drink. Save Money. Save Time and give your mom a gift certificate to dinner out with Resturant.com. It's really the perfect gift to say, "Mom, you deserve a night out or two." The restaurant choices are MANY. Check out the club options here.

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Monday, April 21, 2008

garden delights and garden progress

Our garden is insane. We're loving this experience (thanks to Patti, the Garden Girl and her Urban Sustainable Living help, my friend Anita (I've watched her soul grow as her garden grows and for the Revolution U-Tube for the inspiration).



Just this morning, while sipping some green tea and doing some extra watering, Michael mentioned that he really can't believe we've (he's - God's) done this. It's a work of God - truly. Check out the Princess Pathway - it's almost done. Garden Guy's supposed to finish it today. Then all the little Princesses will have a straight path (sorta) down to the "bump" and grandkiddo play area.


We've gone from this. . .
and this . . .

to this . . .

and this. Amazing. Simply amazing.

Box # 2 - on the right - is so loaded with dill. The cucumbers are trailing beyond the little stake I put up - they're headed up the pool fencing. Sweet. That's a bit of French Sorrel in the front left side of the box and nasturtiums (with the orange flower) in the center.


Our lettuce consumes box # 1. We're eating tons of salad and will soon package up baggies for neighbors. I'd mentioned the end of last week about our sick tomato plants. Garden Guy replaced them Saturday with some organic ones from Whole Foods.


Because our desert sun is so HOT - Garden Guy's planning to add to build sun screens to see if we can lengthen our growing time. And, of course, I'll post that progress. I'm also starting to research what would be good to plant next.


Oh, one other cool thing - we checked our little Pomegranate tree this morning - down at the end of the Princess Pathway and to our utter joy - we've got actual Pomegranates growing. Wow. Amazing. Simply Amazing.

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lemons and more lemons


I crave lemons and I'm really excited that our new lemon tree has some blossoms on it. I can't wait to pick a lemon from my own tree and then . . . just smile.


While searching for my Easter Brunch menu, I had lemons on my mind. I found this easy lemon cake recipe on skirt, but for some reason it's not to be found.

I made this Lemon Cake (off Martha's site) for Easter. I increased the lemon and if I might say so myself, it was fantastic!

Ingredients
Serves 8
1 cup sour cream
2 teaspoons vanilla extract
2 teaspoons finely grated lemon zest
3 tablespoons fresh lemon juice
2 1/4 cups all-purpose flour, sifted, plus more for dusting
1 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon baking soda
1/4 teaspoon salt
4 tablespoons (1/2 stick) unsalted butter, room temperature, plus more for pan
1 1/4 cups granulated sugar
3 large eggs plus 3 large egg whites
Confectioners' sugar, for dusting
Borage or other edible flowers, for garnish

Directions
Preheat oven to 325 degrees. Butter a 9-inch round cake pan. Line bottom with parchment cut to fit, and butter parchment. Dust with flour, and tap out excess.
Combine sour cream, vanilla, zest, and juice. In a separate bowl, whisk flour, baking powder, baking soda, and salt.

Beat butter and sugar with a mixer on medium-high speed until pale and fluffy. Add eggs and whites, 1 at a time, beating well after each addition. Beat in sour cream mixture. Reduce speed to low, and beat in flour mixture until just combined. Transfer to pan, and smooth top.
Bake until a toothpick comes out clean, 40 to 45 minutes. Let cool in pan on a wire rack for 5 minutes, then turn out cake onto rack to cool completely. (Cake can be stored in an airtight container at room temperature overnight.) Before serving, dust with confectioners' sugar, and arrange flowers on top.

But, I found this recipe for Lemon Cream Cake that looks yummy.

Ingredients
5 large eggs
1 3/4 cups sugar
pinch salt
2 cups all-purpose flour
3 teaspoons baking powder
2/3 cup heavy cream
6 tablespoons melted butter
finely grated zest of 3 lemons
2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice


Directions
Heat oven to 375°. Butter and flour a 9x5x3-inch loaf pan.
In the bowl of an electric mixer, combine the eggs, sugar, and salt; beat until thick and a light lemon color.

In another bowl, sift together the flour and baking powder.


Gently stir the flour mixture into the egg and sugar mixture a little at a time; blend well. Blend in the cream and melted butter and then stir in the lemon zest and lemon juice.
Pour the batter into the prepared loaf pan. Bake for 40 to 45 minutes, or until golden brown around the edges. Remove to a rack to cool for about 5 minutes, then turn the cake out onto the rack to cool completely.

Serve this lemon dessert sauce on ice cream, gingerbread, or pound cake.

Ingredients:
1 tablespoon cornstarch
1/2 cup granulated sugar
dash salt
1 cup boiling water
1 teaspoon finely grated lemon zest
juice 1 lemon, 2 to 3 tablespoons



Preparation:
Combine cornstarch, sugar, and salt in a small saucepan; stir to blend well. Slowly stir in the boiling water. Place over medium-low heat and cook, stirring constantly, until mixture begins to boil. Let the mixture simmer for 5 minutes. Remove from heat and add the lemon zest and juice. Makes about 1 cup of lemon dessert sauce.


And this one - is my next one I'm going to try (it's from Contessa's site):

1/2 pound (2 sticks) unsalted butter at room temperature
2 1/2 cups granulated sugar,
divided 4 extra-large eggs, at room temperature
1/3 cup grated lemon zest lightly packed (6 to 8 large lemons - Use only fresh lemon juice and zest)
3 cups all-purpose flour
1/2 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon baking soda
1 teaspoon kosher salt
3/4 cup freshly squeezed lemon juice
3/4 cup buttermilk, at room temperature
1 teaspoon pure vanilla extract

For the glaze:
2 cups confectioners' sugar
3 1/2 tablespoons freshly squeezed lemon juice

Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F.
Grease and flour 2 (8 1/2 by 4 1/4 by 2 1/2-inch) loaf pans.
Cream the butter and 2 cups granulated sugar in the bowl of an electric mixer fitted with the paddle attachment, the key to great cakes is beating the butter and sugar until the mixture's until light and fluffy, about 5 minutes. With the mixer on medium speed add the eggs, (break the eggs into a dish before adding to the batter to avoid a bad egg or shells in the batter) 1 at a time, and the lemon zest. Sift together the flour, to make sure there are no lumps, baking powder, baking soda, and salt in a bowl. Separately, combine 1/4 cup lemon juice, the buttermilk, and vanilla. Add the flour and buttermilk mixtures alternately, beginning and ending with the flour.

Divide evenly between the pans, smooth the tops, and bake for 45 minutes to 1 hour, until a cake tester comes out clean.

Cook 1/2 cup granulated sugar with 1/2 cup lemon juice in a small saucepan and cook over low heat until the sugar dissolves. When the cakes are done, cool for 10 minutes, invert them onto a rack set over a tray and spoon the lemon syrup over the cakes. Allow the cakes to cool completely.

For the glaze, combine the confectioners' sugar and the lemon juice in a bowl, mixing with a wire whisk until smooth. Pour over the tops of the cakes and allow the glaze to drizzle down the sides. To freeze these cakes, prepare them except the glaze. Wrap them well in plastic wrap and freeze. When you're ready to use, defrost and glaze.

And for fun here are New Uses for Lemon
“Lemon juice is the strongest food acid in our kitchens, strong enough to make life unbearable for most bacteria,” says Robert Wolke, professor emeritus of chemistry at the University of Pittsburgh

Use Lemons to:


1. Sanitize a chopping block. Run a slice of lemon over the surface to disinfect.


2. Eliminate the browning that occurs when food sits out too long. Sprinkle apple or pear slices with lemon juice before serving, or squeeze a bit into guacamole and give it a stir.


3. Remove tough food stains from plastic and light-colored wooden cutting boards. Slice a lemon in half, squeeze the juice onto the soiled surface, rub, and let sit for 20 minutes. Rinse with water.


4. Fade tea stains on cloth. Dilute lemon juice with an equal amount of water. Use an eyedropper or a Q-tip to make sure the juice targets the stain. Thoroughly flush with cool water.


5. Decorate on the cheap. Fill a glass bowl with lemons for a sunny centerpiece. Or display a row of them along a windowsill.


6. Relieve a sore throat. Cut a lemon in half. Skewer one half over a medium flame on a gas stove or an electric burner set on high and roast until the peel turns golden brown. Let cool slightly, then mix the juice with 1 teaspoon of honey. Swallow the mixture.


7. Whiten fingernails. Rub a wedge on the surface of your nails.


8. Shine the interior of copper cookware. Sprinkle a lemon wedge with salt, then scrub.


9. Brighten laundry whites. Add 1/2 cup lemon juice to the wash cycle of a normal-size load.


10. Remove soft cheese or other sticky foods from a grater. Rub both sides of the grater with the pulp side of a cut lemon.


11. Read the rest here . . .

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Sunday, April 20, 2008

Classy Trap for Pesky Wasps


Aren't these the cutest garden pretties that you've ever wanted to have? One of my readers mentioned her need to find something to get the wasps in her garden. A little research and I found just the thing and they're pretty and practical!
A little sugar water in the bottom of these pretty glass jars will lure wasps inside, where they can’t escape. Hang overhead or set on a table for wasp-free dining.

Attract wasps, hornets and yellow jackets with a little sugar water. Hang up or set on a tabletop away from active areas

Note: In case you are ordering this item as a gift and it is the only item on your order, please be aware that there is a picture of the item on the outside of the shipping box. Go here to order them. I am.

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