Monday, August 14, 2006

burdens and blessings

This morning began with the normal hustle bustle with three children ready for their day. After the oatmeal (pretty traditional around here), I decided that morning chores would begin. I am a big one to teach little ones how to do chores, and I am thankful that both our daughters have been training their children in this. For some reason, though, today wasn't a day when either older child was interested in doing after breakfast chores. Actually, I don't think I can remember when I was a kid that I ever was interested in doing chores. As a matter of fact, I'm still not particularly interested in doing them. But, it doesn't matter, because it's part of my burden that I get to fulfill with joy.

What was cool was that there was an opportunity for a "Nana Moment" with both Simon and Jillian. I got to talk about ants and bees. Ants and bees. They are hard little workers. They carry their load. They have a burden to bear and they bear it. They both knew that they worked for the queen. I shared with them how their dad, their mom, their poppy and even me all have a burden to bear. Simon knew what all our burdens were. I asked him if his dad would rather do his "burden" or go surfing. He told me he'd rather go skateboarding because he's a skate boarder.

The idea I was trying to get across is that every one has a burden to bear and when we bear it with joy, it has the potential to become a blessing for someone else. The one person I remember bearing his burden with joy was my grandfather - fondly known as Opa. Opa made things with wood. He loved working with his hands, and I never heard him complain or grumble.

As my granddaughter brushed her hair, she stood on a little wooden stool. It just so happened that it's one that Opa made. I know it was his burden made with joy. And, what was so cool, is that she got the blessing - to stand on the stool to see in the mirror. She got to experience first hand how Opa's burden done with joy became her blessing.

It was a good day.

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Sunday, August 13, 2006

...my mind and my stomach get mad at me

You know how many choices we make in a day? I don't know exactly, but I think it's too many. We seem to invest great amounts of time and mental capacity in making decisions that were far simpler or simply didn't exist in the past. Sometimes choosing just one choice can paralize us or put us into a spin.

My grandson told me today that his choice of either a few M n M's or an icecream cone was too hard because it was making his mind and his stomach get mad at him. He said, "I know I'm going to make a decision and I know I'm not going to like it. I am going to get mad at myself with the decision I make." I am just about belly laughing as I journal this wonderful grandkid moment. Isn't it like a 6-year olds honest confession of choice struggles that show us how much stress there is to life's decisions.

In thinking about my choices, I am reminded of the story in Luke, where Jesus sees Martha's frenzy over her choices.(I wonder if her mind and stomach were getting mad at her.... I love Jesus' gentle words to her frenzied feminine soul - "Martha, only one thing is needed and see, your sister Mary has chosen that one thing." Ok, you worker bees - Jesus is not saying, don't NOT be busy, but what he is saying is to keep your heart entwined with his as you do. Don't neglect him as your reward. I love this little guy so much. God uses him to teach me about how to not get my mind and my stomach mad at me.

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...but I don't like washing dishes...

How fun it is to have 3 unique grandchildren. I only wish that I were able to capture everything that they say and do. Oh, God, help me, because there are too many sweet moments where I find that You are talking to me through them.

Today, for example - I told my granddaughter that I wanted to teach her how to wash the dishes. In her cute and darling way, she replied, "Nana, I already know how to how to wash dishes." I thought how wonderful. But, then she said the cutest thing, "I don't like to wash dishes." Well, my goodness, what woman really does? And then it dawned on me, here's something God wants to talk to me and her about. So, in reply to her darling comment, I said, " Well, I don't either! And, sometimes we have to do things we don't like to do."

Isn't that the truth? How often am I or you required by God to do something that we just don't want to or don't like to? I "get" to all the time. How often are we "not in the mood" to do something for someone else? Is it that we allow our "I don't like to" or "not in the moods" to lead right thinking in caring for others and relating to them as God would require? When I stand before Jesus I won't be able to give the excuse, "I don't like to wash dishes." You won't either. Blessings!

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