To all you single lady readers: don't get caught up in the cultural ways of romantic pursuit rather consider God's ancient ways.
Sometimes the way of culture can work, but I'd like to suggest to you - return to the ancient ways - which are always best.
When a girl wants to let a guy know that she likes him - it can be a hook.
One - it usually makes her feel even more insecure if he rejects her advance.
Second - if he's slightly interested in her - he could also become more interested in her than he really is - because guys liked to be liked.
If he's drawn to her because he likes being liked - he might not be drawn to her because he likes her.
So many women - and guys - fall in love with love rather than the person.
My suggestions then are to go back to your post :-) .....walk in confidence, walk as if you are so you will be - and be the beautiful responder that you are. These are the ancient ways and they work best.
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